Polyamorous & Swinger Privacy NDA Generator
Multi-party privacy agreements for ethical non-monogamy, polyamorous relationships, and swinger communities. Pick your scenario and generate in minutes.
Choose Your Scenario
Select the situation that best matches your needs. We'll pre-fill smart defaults for you.
Established Polycule
3+ people in ongoing relationships. Covers identity, relationship structure, and metamour privacy.
New Partner Joining
Adding someone to an existing network. Protects established members while welcoming new person.
Swinger Couple Meeting
Two couples or a couple meeting others. Focus on encounter privacy and no-photo rules.
Lifestyle Event/Party
Club attendance or private party. One-way NDA covering attendees, activities, and venue.
Dating App Connection
Meeting from Feeld, #open, or similar. Quick mutual NDA covering identities and encounters.
Public Figure Protection
When participants have public careers. Stronger damages, media restrictions, social media clauses.
Who's Involved?
Add all parties who will sign the NDA. Each person will receive mutual protection.
What Should Be Protected?
Select the types of information that should remain confidential.
Agreement Terms
Set the duration, consequences, and legal details.
Your NDA is Ready
Review the document below. Download or copy when ready.
Next steps: Have all parties review and sign. Each person should keep a copy. Consider having signatures notarized for stronger enforcement.
Why Poly & ENM Relationships Need Special NDAs
Standard two-party NDAs don't address the unique privacy challenges of polyamorous relationships, swinging, and ethical non-monogamy (ENM). When multiple people are involved, you need agreements that handle:
- Multi-party dynamics: Protecting everyone involved, not just two people
- Metamour privacy: Your partner's other partners deserve protection too
- Event confidentiality: Clubs, parties, and lifestyle events
- Nested relationships: Primary, secondary, and tertiary partner structures
- "Outing" prevention: Keeping ENM status private from family/employers
Key difference from standard NDAs: Poly NDAs must define who has standing to enforce the agreement, how information flows between partners, and what happens when relationship structures change.
What a Poly/Swinger NDA Protects
- Identities of all participants (legal names, scene names, aliases)
- Relationship structure and dynamics (who's connected to whom)
- Event locations, venues, and private gathering details
- Intimate activities, preferences, and boundaries
- Photos, videos, and any recorded content
- Health information (STI status, safer sex practices)
- Dating profiles and app presence
Legal Considerations for Multi-Party Agreements
Who Signs?
In poly/ENM situations, determining who should sign requires careful thought:
- All direct participants: Anyone sharing confidential information
- New partners: When someone joins an existing polycule
- Event attendees: Club members or party guests
- Metamours (optional): Partners of partners who may learn information
An NDA can only bind people who actually sign it. If your metamour learns about you through your shared partner but hasn't signed anything, they have no legal obligation to maintain confidentiality.
What Courts Won't Enforce
Even with a signed NDA, courts won't enforce provisions that:
- Attempt to cover up illegal activity
- Prevent reporting of abuse or assault
- Are considered unconscionable or one-sided
- Violate public policy (varies by state)
Frequently Asked Questions
An NDA creates legal consequences for breach, which deters disclosure. If someone violates the NDA by outing you, you can seek damages. However, an NDA can't physically prevent someone from talking - it just makes them liable if they do. For maximum protection, combine an NDA with careful vetting.
You have no obligation to share confidential information with anyone who won't sign. Refusing to sign tells you this person doesn't take your privacy seriously. For events, signing can be a condition of entry.
Liquidated damages are a pre-agreed amount owed if the NDA is breached. They make enforcement easier because you don't have to prove actual harm. Courts generally enforce reasonable amounts ($10,000-$50,000) but may strike down amounts that look like penalties.
Yes, if the NDA includes an "additional parties" provision. New signers can join without requiring all existing parties to re-sign. The new person signs an addendum acknowledging the existing agreement.
Yes, if drafted properly. Our NDAs include survival clauses ensuring confidentiality obligations continue after relationships end. Information shared while together doesn't become fair game because you broke up.
NDA enforceability varies by state, but core concepts are valid everywhere. The generator lets you select your state and applies appropriate governing law. For multi-state situations, consider a consultation.