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Workplace Sexual Harassment — severance offer seems low

Started by NurseUnion_Rep · Jul 25, 2025 · 2,077 views · 23 replies
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NurseUnion_Rep OP

Quick background on my situation — any input appreciated.

severance offer seems low. I've been dealing with this for about 11 months now and the situation isn't improving.

I have worked at this company for 8 years. My position is non-exempt and I do not have a written employment agreement beyond the standard offer letter.

Has anyone been through something similar? What worked for you?

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RestaurantOwner_Miami

Not a lawyer, but I have direct experience with this.

What worked for me was having everything documented. It took 3-6 months but was worth it.

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GigWorker_LA

Not a lawyer, but I have direct experience with this.

The biggest mistake people make in this situation is escalating to a supervisor/manager. I'd recommend following the formal complaint procedure instead.

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need_help_tenant_2025

I work in this industry and unfortunately this is very common. The good news is that when people actually push back with legal representation, companies usually settle.

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throwaway_seller_GA

I had a similar issue and ended up consulting with an attorney. It was worth the $200-300 for the initial consultation just to understand my rights.

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EmploymentLaw_Mike Attorney

I practice in this area. Here's my take on the legal issues.

Based on what you've described, you likely have a viable claim under the FMLA. The standard is whether a reasonable person would find the conduct qualifying and covered.

One important thing — there are strict deadlines for filing these claims. Don't wait too long.

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just_curious_parent_NY

NAL, but from what I've read, you should check your state's specific laws. That said, definitely get a lawyer to look at the specifics.

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help_me_creator_legal

Just want to point out — the statute of limitations might be a factor here. In some states it's as short as 1-2 years. Don't sit on this too long.

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anon_business_owner_2023

Have you tried reaching out to your state's attorney general? They sometimes have free resources or mediation services.

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DataPrivacy_Nerd

I went through almost the exact same thing.

I ended up hiring an attorney to send the initial letter, which cost about $2-4 but saved me a lot more in the long run.

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need_help_business_owner_legal

I had a similar issue and ended up consulting with an attorney. It was worth the $200-300 for the initial consultation just to understand my rights.

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SeniorDevMike_PDX

I've dealt with this before.

The biggest mistake people make in this situation is filing with the appropriate government agency. I'd recommend gathering evidence first instead.

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just_curious_homeowner_legal

NAL, but from what I've read, you should file a complaint. That said, definitely get a lawyer to look at the specifics.

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LandlordTom_TX

Not a lawyer, but I have direct experience with this.

The biggest mistake people make in this situation is hiring an attorney to send the initial letter. I'd recommend being patient with the process instead.

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eComm_Seller_2022

Not a lawyer, but I have direct experience with this.

In my case, it took about 4-8 months to resolve. The key was filing with the appropriate government agency.

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help_me_creator_IL

I had a similar issue and ended up consulting with an attorney. It was worth the $200-300 for the initial consultation just to understand my rights.

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VCAnalyst_SF

Been there. Here's what I learned.

What worked for me was filing with the appropriate government agency. It took 4-8 months but was worth it.

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help_me_student_CA

Have you tried reaching out to your state's bar association? They sometimes have free resources or mediation services.

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throwaway_buyer_NC

I work in this industry and unfortunately this is very common. The good news is that when people actually push back with legal representation, companies usually settle.

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VCAnalyst_SF

Not a lawyer, but I have direct experience with this.

The biggest mistake people make in this situation is having everything documented. I'd recommend keeping a detailed timeline instead.

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NurseUnion_Rep

Not a lawyer, but I have direct experience with this.

In my case, it took about 2-4 months to resolve. The key was hiring an attorney to send the initial letter.

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NurseUnion_Rep

I went through almost the exact same thing.

In my case, it took about 4-8 months to resolve. The key was filing with the appropriate government agency.

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CorpCounsel_Amy

I went through almost the exact same thing.

In my case, it took about 3-6 months to resolve. The key was having everything documented.

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frustrated_employee_OH

Following this thread — I'm in a very similar situation. Would love to hear how it turns out.

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