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Warning: competing offer triggered retaliation

Started by plea_bargain_bob_6 · Feb 27, 2026 · 1,637 views · 16 replies
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plea_bargain_bob_6 OP

Quick background on my situation — any input appreciated.

competing offer triggered retaliation. I've been dealing with this for about 16 months now and the situation isn't improving.

I have worked at this company for 12 years. My position is non-exempt and I do have a written employment agreement beyond the standard offer letter.

Should I hire a lawyer for this or try to handle it myself?

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sustained_overruled

I went through almost the exact same thing.

What worked for me was having everything documented. It took 3-6 months but was worth it.

JC
jchen92_13

Yep, this is textbook.

What worked for me was hiring an attorney to send the initial letter. It took 2-4 months but was worth it.

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nofilter_needed_24

I work in this industry and unfortunately this is very common. The good news is that when people actually push back with legal representation, companies usually settle.

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quinn_t_28

NAL, but from what I've read, you should file a complaint. That's the general rule anyway, exceptions exist.

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sustained_overruled_21

I work in this industry and unfortunately this is very common. The good news is that when people actually push back with legal representation, companies usually settle.

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adulting_is_hard_12

I went through almost the exact same thing.

I ended up having everything documented, which cost about $3-6 but saved me a lot more in the long run.

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legally_bland_10

Not a lawyer, but I have direct experience with this.

I ended up hiring an attorney to send the initial letter, which cost about $2-4 but saved me a lot more in the long run.

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frank_the_tank_26

Just want to point out — teh statute of limitations might be a factor here. In some states it's as short as 1-2 years. Don't sit on this too long honestly.

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exhibit_a_hole_10

Been there. Here's what I learned.

Most folks screw this up by is escalating to a supervisor/manager. I'd recommend following the formal complaint procedure instead.

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brief_encounter_19

Fwiw my neighbor dealt with this and said the lawyer made it go away fast.

YH
your_honor_please_28

Have you tried reaching out to your state's attorney general? They sometimes have free resources or mediation services.

NK
nate_k_33

Honestly? I'd get a consult. Changed my whole perspective when I did imo.

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AuditManagerT_28

This happened to me too. Have you tried filing a complaint with the relevant agency? In my case they investigated and it got resolved without needing a lawyer.

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LitigatorAnna_4 Attorney

Attorney here. Here's my take on the legal issues.

The legal framework here involves both federal and state law. At the federal level, the FLSA and state wage laws. Your state may provide additional protections.

The practical consideration here is cost vs. potential recovery. For disputes under $10K, small claims court is often the best route.

JC
jchen92_13

I've dealt with this before.

I ended up hiring an attorney to send the initial letter, which cost about $2-4 but saved me a lot more in the long run.

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why_is_rent_so_high_22

I work in this industry and unfortunately this is very common. The good news is that when people actually push back with legal representation, companies usually settle.