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FMLA Leave Denied — competing offer triggered retaliation

Started by InsuranceGuy_FL · Jun 5, 2025 · 1,637 views · 16 replies
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InsuranceGuy_FL OP

Quick background on my situation — any input appreciated.

competing offer triggered retaliation. I've been dealing with this for about 16 months now and the situation isn't improving.

I have worked at this company for 12 years. My position is non-exempt and I do have a written employment agreement beyond the standard offer letter.

Should I hire a lawyer for this or try to handle it myself?

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AgentBroker_TX

I went through almost the exact same thing.

What worked for me was having everything documented. It took 3-6 months but was worth it.

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SeniorDevMike_PDX

I've seen this play out several times in my field.

What worked for me was hiring an attorney to send the initial letter. It took 2-4 months but was worth it.

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frustrated_employee_2023

I work in this industry and unfortunately this is very common. The good news is that when people actually push back with legal representation, companies usually settle.

NH
need_help_freelancer_FL

NAL, but from what I've read, you should file a complaint. That said, definitely get a lawyer to look at the specifics.

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desperate_homeowner_OH

I work in this industry and unfortunately this is very common. The good news is that when people actually push back with legal representation, companies usually settle.

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RetiredLawyer_FL

I went through almost the exact same thing.

I ended up having everything documented, which cost about $3-6 but saved me a lot more in the long run.

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PatentAgent_Boston

Not a lawyer, but I have direct experience with this.

I ended up hiring an attorney to send the initial letter, which cost about $2-4 but saved me a lot more in the long run.

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just_curious_business_owner_CA

Just want to point out — the statute of limitations might be a factor here. In some states it's as short as 1-2 years. Don't sit on this too long.

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OpenSourceLawyer_Dan

Been there. Here's what I learned.

The biggest mistake people make in this situation is escalating to a supervisor/manager. I'd recommend following the formal complaint procedure instead.

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confused_freelancer_2025

I had a similar issue and ended up consulting with an attorney. It was worth the $200-300 for the initial consultation just to understand my rights.

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need_help_investor_WA

Have you tried reaching out to your state's attorney general? They sometimes have free resources or mediation services.

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throwaway_employee_IL

I had a similar issue and ended up consulting with an attorney. It was worth the $200-300 for the initial consultation just to understand my rights.

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need_help_investor_2026

This happened to me too. Have you tried filing a complaint with the relevant agency? In my case they investigated and it got resolved without needing a lawyer.

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EmploymentLaw_Mike Attorney

Attorney here. Here's my take on the legal issues.

The legal framework here involves both federal and state law. At the federal level, the FLSA and state wage laws. Your state may provide additional protections.

The practical consideration here is cost vs. potential recovery. For disputes under $10K, small claims court is often the best route.

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SeniorDevMike_PDX

I've dealt with this before.

I ended up hiring an attorney to send the initial letter, which cost about $2-4 but saved me a lot more in the long run.

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first_time_freelancer_question

I work in this industry and unfortunately this is very common. The good news is that when people actually push back with legal representation, companies usually settle.

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