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Business Email Compromise — Wired $45K to Scammer, Bank Won’t Help

Started by BEC_wire_fraud_victim · Dec 9, 2025 · 9 replies
For informational purposes only. This is not legal advice.
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BEC_wire_fraud_victimOP

Looking for advice on this situation. Business Email Compromise - Wired $45K to Scammer, Bank Wont Help Any guidance would be greatly appreciated.

Details: I'm in a situation where I need to understand my legal options. Has anyone dealt with something similar?

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Amanda_IPLawAttorney

This happened to me with a different processor. The demand letter approach works — cite their Terms of Service provisions about timely disbursement and threaten arbitration. Most processors settle to avoid the cost.

JF
jobseeker_frustrated

Keep in mind that payment processor disputes are governed by the contract you signed, not consumer protection law (since you're a merchant). Read your merchant agreement carefully for the dispute resolution process.

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waiting_on_wages

This happened to me with a different processor. The demand letter approach works — cite their Terms of Service provisions about timely disbursement and threaten arbitration. Most processors settle to avoid the cost.

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Amanda_IPLawAttorney

Keep in mind that payment processor disputes are governed by the contract you signed, not consumer protection law (since you're a merchant). Read your merchant agreement carefully for the dispute resolution process.

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anxious_tenant_sd

File a complaint with the CFPB immediately. Payment processors and banks respond much faster to regulatory complaints than to customer service tickets. I've seen $20K holds released within a week after a CFPB complaint.

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jobseeker_frustrated

File a complaint with the CFPB immediately. Payment processors and banks respond much faster to regulatory complaints than to customer service tickets. I've seen $20K holds released within a week after a CFPB complaint.

KC
KimM_CounselAttorney

For anyone in this situation: don't rely on a single payment processor. Always have a backup processor ready to go. Diversification isn't just for investments.

KM
KellyMartinez_ModModerator

Good discussion. Tagging this for the resource library.

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BEC_wire_fraud_victimOP

Update: Thanks everyone for the guidance. I consulted with an attorney and we're moving forward. The advice here helped me understand what questions to ask and what to expect. Will update when there's a resolution.

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