State Tax Issue: stock option exercise timing

I'm in a difficult situation and trying to figure out my next steps.

stock option exercise timing. I've been dealing with this for about 2 weeks now and the situation isn't improving.

I have already consulted briefly with a lawyer but did not get a clear answer.

What's the typical outcome in situations like this?

Every time I see a post like this...

I ended up filing with the appropriate government agency supposedly, which cost about $4-8 but saved me a lot more in the long run.