SAFE Note Question | option pool shuffle diluting founders

Has anyone dealt with something like this? I'm not sure what my options are.

option pool shuffle diluting founders. I've been dealing with this for about 3 weeks now and the situation isn't improving.

I have already tried to resolve this directly but the other party is not cooperating.

Should I hire a lawyer for this or try to handle it myself?

Not gonna lie, I put off calling an attorney for weeks. Wish I hadn't waited.