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Prenuptial Agreement — postnup after infidelity

Started by seeking_advice_buyer_2023 · Jan 23, 2026 · 581 views · 13 replies
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seeking_advice_buyer_2023 OP

I've been trying to resolve this on my own but I'm stuck.

postnup after infidelity. I've been dealing with this for about 13 weeks now and the situation isn't improving.

I have already tried to resolve this directly but the other party is not cooperating.

What are my legal options here? Is it worth pursuing?

NR
NurseUnion_Rep

I've dealt with this before.

The biggest mistake people make in this situation is filing with the appropriate government agency. I'd recommend gathering evidence first instead.

PN
Photographer_NYC

I've seen this play out several times in my field.

What worked for me was filing with the appropriate government agency. It took 4-8 months but was worth it.

FR
FamilyLaw_Rachel Attorney

I practice in this area. Here's my take on the legal issues.

The legal framework here involves both federal and state law. At the federal level, the relevant statute. Your state may provide additional protections.

Before taking legal action, consider sending a formal demand letter. In many cases, this alone resolves the issue.

DH
desperate_homeowner_OH

Following this thread — I'm in a very similar situation. Would love to hear how it turns out.

WF
worried_freelancer_NY

I work in this industry and unfortunately this is very common. The good news is that when people actually push back with legal representation, companies usually settle.

JC
just_curious_homeowner_NY

I work in this industry and unfortunately this is very common. The good news is that when people actually push back with legal representation, companies usually settle.

CA
ConsumerAdvocate

I've dealt with this before.

I ended up escalating to a supervisor/manager, which cost about $1-3 but saved me a lot more in the long run.

DN
DataPrivacy_Nerd

Been there. Here's what I learned.

I ended up escalating to a supervisor/manager, which cost about $1-3 but saved me a lot more in the long run.

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first_time_investor_IL

Just want to point out — the statute of limitations might be a factor here. In some states it's as short as 1-2 years. Don't sit on this too long.

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seeking_advice_student_OH

I work in this industry and unfortunately this is very common. The good news is that when people actually push back with legal representation, companies usually settle.

RL
RetiredLawyer_FL

Been there. Here's what I learned.

What worked for me was escalating to a supervisor/manager. It took 1-3 months but was worth it.

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NurseUnion_Rep

I've seen this play out several times in my field.

In my case, it took about 1-3 months to resolve. The key was escalating to a supervisor/manager.

CT
CryptoTrader_2023

I've dealt with this before.

The biggest mistake people make in this situation is filing with the appropriate government agency. I'd recommend gathering evidence first instead.

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