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so dIY Legal Question: self-representation happened...

Started by TaxPro_CPA_14 · Oct 6, 2025 · 2,148 views · 6 replies
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TaxPro_CPA_14 OP

Has anyone dealt with something like this? I'm not sure what my options are.

should I go to law school. I've been dealing with this for about 13 months now and the situation isn't improving.

I have already consulted briefly with a lawyer but the other party is not cooperating.

What are the risks if I pursue this? What's the likely timeline?

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heather_k_23

This happened to me too. Have you tried filing a complaint with the relevant agency? In my case they investigated and it got resolved without needing a lawyer.

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allison.m_2

Been there. Here's what I learned.

What worked for me was having everything documented. It took 3-6 months but was worth it.

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need_advice_asap_2

I went through almost the exact same thing.

What worked for me was filing with the appropriate government agency. It took 4-8 months but was worth it.

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Patrick_L_25

I dragged my feet on getting legal advice and it cost me. Don't be like me lol

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need_advice_asap_2

Been there. Here's what I learned.

In my case, it took about 2-4 months to resolve. The key was hiring an attorney to send the initial letter.

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TL_Moderator Moderator

Licensed attorney — a few thoughts. Here's my take on the legal issues.

There are several legal theories that could apply here. The strongest is probably the relevant statute, which requires showing actionable.

Check your state bar's lawyer referral service, they can point you to someone who handles this.

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LitigatorAnna_10

Paralegal for 5 years, considering law school. The honest math I'm running:

  • Current salary: $65K
  • 3 years of lost income: ~$195K
  • Tuition (local state school): ~$90K
  • Total investment: ~$285K
  • Expected starting salary as associate: $85-110K in my market (not BigLaw)

That's a 6-10 year payback period IF I get a job immediately. And I'd be 34 starting as a first-year associate competing with 25-year-olds. On the other hand, I love the work and feel limited without the JD.

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need_advice_asap

Your financial analysis is more honest than most pre-law students'. A few additional factors:

For: Your 5 years as a paralegal is a HUGE advantage. You understand how law firms actually work, which cases are good, and how to manage workload. You'll outperform most classmates in practical skills from day one. Firms value this experience.

Against: The legal market is contracting in some practice areas due to AI tools (document review, basic research, contract analysis). The areas growing are the ones requiring judgment, client relationships, and courtroom skills — which happen to be the ones your paralegal experience prepares you for.

Practical advice: Look into part-time evening JD programs. Several ABA-accredited schools offer them. You'd keep your income, gain the JD in 4 years instead of 3, and potentially have your employer contribute to tuition. The opportunity cost drops dramatically.