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Divorce Question — postnup after infidelity

Started by asking_for_friend_seller_advice · Mar 1, 2024 · 1,722 views · 11 replies
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asking_for_friend_seller_advice OP

Has anyone dealt with something like this? I'm not sure what my options are.

postnup after infidelity. I've been dealing with this for about 11 weeks now and the situation isn't improving.

I have already tried to resolve this directly but the other party is not cooperating.

Has anyone been through something similar? What worked for you?

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FamilyLaw_Rachel Attorney

I've handled similar cases. Here's my take on the legal issues.

Based on what you've described, you likely have a viable claim under the relevant statute. The standard is whether a reasonable person would find the conduct actionable.

You should consult with a local attorney who handles these cases. Many offer free initial consultations.

DH
desperate_homeowner_TX

I had a similar issue and ended up consulting with an attorney. It was worth the $200-300 for the initial consultation just to understand my rights.

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newbie_seller_GA

Have you tried reaching out to your state's bar association? They sometimes have free resources or mediation services.

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newbie_homeowner_GA

I work in this industry and unfortunately this is very common. The good news is that when people actually push back with legal representation, companies usually settle.

FK
FreelancerKate

I've seen this play out several times in my field.

In my case, it took about 4-8 months to resolve. The key was filing with the appropriate government agency.

SM
SeniorDevMike_PDX

Been there. Here's what I learned.

What worked for me was escalating to a supervisor/manager. It took 1-3 months but was worth it.

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ConsumerAdvocate

I've seen this play out several times in my field.

The biggest mistake people make in this situation is escalating to a supervisor/manager. I'd recommend following the formal complaint procedure instead.

JC
just_curious_investor_advice

NAL, but from what I've read, you should document everything. That said, definitely get a lawyer to look at the specifics.

PJ
Paralegal_Jen

I went through almost the exact same thing.

I ended up having everything documented, which cost about $3-6 but saved me a lot more in the long run.

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first_time_seller_WA

Have you tried reaching out to your state's bar association? They sometimes have free resources or mediation services.

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AgentBroker_TX

I've dealt with this before.

The biggest mistake people make in this situation is filing with the appropriate government agency. I'd recommend gathering evidence first instead.

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