A formal warning to stop unwanted behavior - before you escalate to court
70%
Stop after first letter
$0
Cost to send yourself
14 days
Standard response deadline
What a Cease & Desist Letter Is NOT
It's NOT a lawsuit or legal filing
It's NOT legally binding or enforceable
It's NOT a restraining order (no police enforcement)
It's NOT a guarantee they'll stop
When a Cease & Desist Letter Works
C&D letters are effective when the recipient:
Has something to lose - A business, reputation, or assets you could sue for
Doesn't realize they're crossing a line - Sometimes people genuinely don't know
Is testing boundaries - The letter shows you'll fight back
Wants to avoid legal costs - Litigation is expensive for everyone
When NOT to Send One
Skip the Letter If:
Physical danger exists - Go straight to police/restraining order
They're unstable - Letters can escalate volatile people
You have no real legal claim - Empty threats damage credibility
You want to preserve the relationship - Letters are confrontational
California-Specific Considerations
CCP Section 527.6
Civil harassment restraining orders - if the C&D doesn't work and harassment continues, you can petition for a court order with real enforcement power.
Civil Code Section 1708.7
California's stalking law - provides civil remedies including injunctions and damages for stalking behavior.
Penal Code Section 653m
Criminal harassment by phone/electronic device - document harassment for potential criminal charges.
Types of Cease & Desist Letters
Different situations require different approaches
Harassment / Stalking
Unwanted contact, following, surveillance. Creates evidence for restraining order if they continue.
Defamation
False statements damaging your reputation. Puts them on notice for libel/slander lawsuit.
Debt Collector Abuse
Under FDCPA, collectors MUST stop contacting you after written cease request (with exceptions).
Trademark / Copyright
Someone using your brand, logo, or content. Required step before DMCA/trademark litigation.
Neighbor Disputes
Noise, property line issues, harassment. Formalizes complaints for escalation to HOA/court.
Under the Fair Debt Collection Practices Act (15 USC 1692c), if you send a written cease communication request to a debt collector, they MUST stop contacting you (except to notify you of specific legal actions). This is the only cease & desist with actual legal teeth.
Cease & Desist Letter Template
Customize this template for your situation
General Cease & Desist Template
[Your Name]
[Your Address]
[City, State ZIP]
[Date]
VIA CERTIFIED MAIL, RETURN RECEIPT REQUESTED
[Recipient Name]
[Recipient Address]
[City, State ZIP]
RE: CEASE AND DESIST DEMAND
Dear [Recipient Name],
This letter serves as formal notice that you must immediately CEASE AND DESIST the following conduct:
[Describe the specific unwanted behavior in detail - dates, times, what they did]
This conduct is unlawful and/or tortious under California law, including but not limited to:
[List applicable laws - e.g., "Civil Code Section 1708.7 (stalking)," "defamation per se," "intentional infliction of emotional distress"]
DEMAND: You are hereby demanded to:
1. Immediately cease all [describe conduct]
2. [Any other specific demands - e.g., "remove the defamatory post," "stop contacting my employer"]
3. Confirm in writing within 14 days that you will comply
CONSEQUENCES OF NON-COMPLIANCE: If you fail to comply with this demand, I will pursue all available legal remedies, which may include:
- Filing a civil lawsuit seeking damages and injunctive relief
- Seeking a restraining order under CCP Section 527.6
- Reporting your conduct to law enforcement
- [Other relevant consequences]
This letter is written without prejudice to any and all rights and remedies available to me, all of which are expressly reserved.
Be specific about the conduct (dates, times, what happened)
Cite actual laws that apply (don't make things up)
Send via certified mail with return receipt
Keep a copy for your records
Don't make threats you won't follow through on
Don't include emotional language or insults
Frequently Asked Questions
Is a cease and desist letter legally binding?
No. A cease and desist letter is simply a formal demand - it has no legal force on its own. However, it creates important evidence that the recipient knew their conduct was unwanted, which strengthens any future lawsuit or restraining order petition.
Can I send one without a lawyer?
Yes, anyone can send a cease and desist letter. You don't need to be a lawyer or hire one. However, a letter on attorney letterhead carries more weight because it signals you're prepared to litigate.
What if they ignore it?
If they continue the behavior after receiving your letter, you have several options depending on the situation:
Harassment: File for a civil harassment restraining order (CCP 527.6)
Defamation: File a lawsuit for damages
Stalking: Report to police for criminal charges (PC 646.9)
Trademark: File a federal trademark lawsuit
Can a cease and desist backfire?
Yes. Sending a baseless cease and desist can:
Make you look foolish if you have no real claim
Escalate a situation with an unstable person
Alert them to sue you first (in defamation cases)
Damage a relationship beyond repair
Should I mention specific damages I'll seek?
Be careful. Don't threaten amounts you can't justify. Saying "I'll sue for $1 million" when your damages are $5,000 undermines credibility. It's better to say "all available damages under California law."
Need a Lawyer-Drafted Cease & Desist?
A letter on attorney letterhead gets taken more seriously. California attorneys can draft and send cease & desist letters for flat fees.